This came across my email the other day, and I thought that it was good. I need these reminders sometimes!
" CHOOSING AUTHENTICITY "
Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, "Let me take the speck out of your eye," when there is the log in your own eye? - MATT 7:1-4
All in favor of authenticity? Here is the first step in practicing authenticity.
First . . . by not judging others. Notice that it says in Matthew 7:1, "Judge not, that you be not judged." Now, I've got to tell you, people are always, like, slapping that on everything. "Oh, you can't judge; don't judge!"
That's not what the verse means. Jesus wasn't categorically dismissing all things requiring judgment. Look at Matthew 7:6 where He talks about precious teachings and the decision not to share with people who don't want to listen. Doesn't that require a judgment?
You can judge actions/behavior. (see 1 Cor 5) Parents, don't ever let your kids back you away from judging actions by saying, "Don't judge!" We have to judge actions. Call a lie a lie. Disrespect disrespect, and disobedience disobedience! The gift of discernment is a spiritual gift.
Here's what Jesus is talking about . . . what we don't judge:
- We don't judge motives. You don't know why people are doing what they're doing. Don't ever let yourself say, "I know why she's like that." "I know why he's doing that." No, you do not! Only God knows a person's heart. He doesn't want us judging the territory that is His venue.
The judging of the heart . . . that is God's job!
- We don't judge appearance. Don't judge a person by the color of their skin or the clothes that they wear, or the car that they drive, or the place that they live, or the job that they have. Don't judge people by what they look like. You can't tell a book by it's cover. You can't! And God hates that.
- We don't judge harshly. Don't hold people to a standard that you're not keeping.
Notice in Matthew 7:2, "For with the judgment you pronounce, you will be judged." Yikes! So, the judgment that I give to others, that's the judgment that I'm going to get. If you're constantly judging, God's like, "You're writing the script I'm going to use to judge you!" Not great!
If you want to get serious about authenticity as a person, harshly judging others' motives and appearance has to stop.
- James MacDonald
*James MacDonald is the senior pastor of Harvest Bible Chapel in Illinios.